The first thing you need to do is to be supportive of your child. Help them to know it’s OK to express how they feel and are those feelings hurt anyone by telling a teacher, parent or mentor? Parents keep telling kids to take their time when talking and sometimes when talking is going to be difficult for them, it’s just better to take the time at home and discuss with your children in a way that is comfortable to both the child and yourself.   You can show them a behavior plan you created in the next day or so that shows them the different tools they can use…